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June 05, 2025 4 min read

Gen X and Self-Care: We’re Not Doing Yoga. We’re Lighting a Candle and Leaving Us Alone.

Let’s be real—most Gen Xers didn’t grow up talking about “feelings,” let alone “healing.” We had:

  • Parents who thought therapy was a scam
  • Told to "rub dirt on it" or "walk it off"
  • After-school specials instead of emotional literacy
  • And about a dozen ways to repress our emotions (thanks, Pepsi and MTV)

But here we are. Grown, a little grizzled, and learning to take care of ourselves—our way.

Not with bubble baths or smoothie bowls.
Not with journaling apps or mindfulness podcasts.

We heal with mixtapes. With cracked vinyl. With wood wick candles that crackle like the static between songs on a dubbed cassette. We create tiny sanctuaries that smell like memories—and light them on fire.


📼 Mixtape Mentality: Curate Your Mood, One Scent at a Time

Gen X invented the playlist before Spotify ever existed. We knew how to build a vibe with side A and side B. The same logic applies to our candle game.

Each scent is a track. A mood. A memory. Here’s how to craft a self-care mixtape—one candle at a time.


🔥 Risky Business

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Scent Notes: Vanilla, lavender, musk, woods
Track Vibe: Track 1: A slow build. Confident. Cool. The scent equivalent of Tom Cruise sliding into the living room in his socks.

Why Light It:
To remind yourself you're still the main character. Yes, even now.


🌲 Backyard Confidential

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Scent Notes: Sandalwood, oak moss, jasmine, lavender, musk
Track Vibe: Track 3: Chill but secretly deep. Summer nights. Smells like secrets you never told and memories that still make you smirk.

Why Light It:
For backyard hangs, beer in hand, playlist on shuffle. Bonus if you're wearing flannel.


💿 B-Side Secrets

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Scent Notes: Smoky woods, lavender, vanilla, musk
Track Vibe: Track 7: The one that hits too hard. The one you rewound 14 times while staring at the ceiling.

Why Light It:
Because healing doesn’t always look pretty. Sometimes it smells like nostalgia and low-grade heartbreak.


🔥 Bonfire Buzz

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Scent Notes: Fire-roasted vanilla, toasted marshmallow, smoldering wood
Track Vibe: Track 10: The closing track. Slow fade out. Lingers long after the candle burns out.

Why Light It:
To release the stuff you’re finally ready to let go. Preferably while staring into the flame and pretending you’re in a music video.


🪵 Why Gen X Self-Care Needs Wood Wicks, Not Cotton Ones

We don’t settle for soft flickers and no sound. We want the whole experience. That’s why all Smells Like Gen X candles are made with:

  • Wood wicks that crackle like a campfire
  • Cleaner burns that last longer than your favorite VHS
  • Scents that stick with you, like the chorus from a Cure song

It’s not just a candle. It’s a vibe with a soundtrack.


🧠 The Unofficial Gen X Self-Care Starter Pack

Let’s be honest—this might be the only “self-care” list that doesn’t require a therapist, an app, or a green juice:

  1. A killer playlist (on cassette, if you're a purist)
  2. A soft hoodie that’s older than your teenager
  3. Noise-canceling silence—or whatever used to be your bedroom alone-time
  4. One or more of the following candles:Risky Business for confidence Backyard Confidential for grounding Flannel Feelings for comfort B-Side Secrets for letting it out Motley Brew for when you just want it strong and bitter, like your sense of humor
  5. Risky Business for confidence
  6. Backyard Confidential for grounding
  7. Flannel Feelings for comfort
  8. B-Side Secrets for letting it out
  9. Motley Brew for when you just want it strong and bitter, like your sense of humor
  10. An actual matchbook. Because flicking a lighter just doesn’t feel as real.
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💥 Self-Care. But Make It Retro.

Self-care doesn’t have to look like pastel journals and rose quartz rollers. It can be:

  • Burning a candle and finally sitting the hell down
  • Playing a song you forgot you loved
  • Creating a space that smells like safety, even if it’s just for 30 minutes

This isn’t performative wellness. This is functional survival with vibes.


🎤 Final Thought: Self-Care Isn’t Weak. It’s the Mixtape You Make for Yourself Now.

You used to make a mixtape for your crush. Now? You make one for you.

You don’t owe anyone a “healing journey” or a perfectly lit meditation reel. You just need:

  • A little music
  • A little scent
  • A little space to breathe

Gen X self-care doesn’t come with hashtags. It comes with intentional solitude, ambient noise, and a match to light the mood.


🕯️ Smells Like Gen X – Reclaim the vibe. Rewrite the B-side. Light the damn candle.


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