Be Excellent to each other
Be Excellent to each other
June 06, 2025 4 min read
You’ve walked past the candle aisles in big-box stores. One side smells like cake batter exploded. The other side? Nonexistent. Because until recently, the market didn’t believe men wanted candles—unless they came shaped like a whiskey bottle or cost $130 and had the word “musk” in 60-point font.
But guess what? Men burn candles. Gen X men especially. And not just because they want to impress someone—they burn because they understand the power of scent. Of ritual. Of anchoring space with something bold, deep, and real.
We’re not here for fake spa vibes. We’re here for:
As Gen Xers, we’ve lived long enough to remember rooms that reeked of Brut and teenage mistakes. We now want candles that feel masculine, adult, and mood-rich.
And we want them without judgment.
It’s not about pouring a gallon of cedarwood into a jar and slapping a beard on the label.
True candles for men are:
What it smells like: Oak moss, lavender, and deep woods—like your dad’s aftershave collided with Gulf Coast driftwood.
Burn this when: You’re grilling shirtless, thinking big thoughts, or rewiring your entire stereo setup.
Why it works: It’s sexy, earthy, and serious without being self-important. A Gen X classic.
What it smells like: Teakwood, gentle citrus, and soft musk—a candle that wears Doc Martens and reads Bukowski.
Burn this when: You’re vibing out with Unplugged, journaling, or watching rain hit your vinyl windows.
Why it works: It’s calm, confident, and deeply nostalgic. Like emotional armor, scented.
What it smells like: Bourbon vanilla, musk, wood, and lavender swagger.
Burn this when: You’re prepping for a date, hosting poker night, or feeling just the right kind of reckless.
Why it works: It’s bold, smooth, and full of Gen X cool.
What it smells like: Strong espresso, grounded bitterness, and creative tension.
Burn this when: You’re writing your manifesto, fixing something mechanical, or avoiding your inbox.
Why it works: Feels like a café inside a vinyl shop. Smells like caffeine and possibility.
What it smells like: Smoldering firewood, sweet ash, roasted marshmallows from that camping trip you never forgot.
Burn this when: You’re reminiscing, recovering, or just craving something smoky and real.
Why it works: It’s raw, emotional, and doesn’t try too hard—just like you.
Bedroom: Risky Business – Turn the mood all the way up
Living Room: Flannel Feelings – Vibe control on high
Garage/Studio: Motley Brew – Focus + grit
Bathroom: Classy AF – Because even real men enjoy good lighting and subtle musk
Backyard: Backyard Confidential – The scent of yardwork and freedom
📍 Related read: How to Choose the Right Candle for Any Room
Father’s Day. Birthdays. “You Survived Another Week” celebrations. Give the men in your life something they’ll actually use.
Gift them:
📍 For more recs: A Gen X Guide to Candle Gifting
Skip the mall. Skip the basic stuff. Shop direct from the nostalgia-scented minds at Smells Like Gen X.
Candles for men aren’t about marketing—they’re about mindset.
They’re about choosing scent over noise.
Mood over chaos.
Memory over minimalism.
And for Gen X guys who know how to feel, how to sit still, and how to light a damn flame? There’s no better time to burn.
🕯 Light it up, man.
You’ve earned this.
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